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Your hands were on my head first.
No formal ceremony.
I was an infant
and shouting clouds trundled and thundered,
atmospheric pressure strangled my stubborn ears refusing airflow.
The blue chair in the living room rocked,
my cries received the blessing of your priesthood.
I was initiated.
Your family was my first ordained tribe.
Still, the anchor and chain slung over my back
are your lessons, to me, about the meaning of Zion:
memories of your collectivism.
together to the hospital,
like the Israelites to Canaan
with an offering of chocolate for the sick:
trimming 40 years
from Individualism’s priestcraft
and capital’s oblivion
with your sugar sweet vision.
up and down fields
with you watching from the sidelines;
your blessing meant your time,
your attention, your trophy of importance.
home a different man
and you asked, “What did they do to you?”
I tried to tell you, but I think you knew
because you saw me hurt
and you hurt:
you lost me.
I had lost myself.
And then I lost you.
Though you are gone,
it is your blessing that remains within me.
All others are only external.
it is your voice that my memory resurrects
when the syncline canyon breathes on my face
and the ghosts of my salience swirl
as did the sea when the spirit of God moved on the face of the waters
like Red-shouldered Hawks spiraling above the pine-laced crags
of Timpanogos’ Prominent
and the snake’s ribbons in the dirt of Provo’s Canyons.
Οὖν ὑμεῖς τέλειοι—
yet not final.
in these images,
with the lessons you sang:
before you formed me in the belly you knew me;
to be an egalitarian is to know God,
of whom I am only a part.
receipts on those holidays
in the same spirit of your blessing,
making sure we knew that at least in your eyes
by the labor of your hands and the sweat of your brow.
With you, covenants were an unspoken spiritual contract
for the wellbeing of the broken,
laced with the strength of compassionate indignation.
when our neighbor came over dressed in frantic burning tears
telling us that her son was locked in the bathroom
and the water was filling
and she didn’t know what to do.
You didn’t ask questions
you flew over the fence,
kicked in the basement window
and pulled him to safety
just before his head went under.
Mother, again, rejoined with child.
That was what mattered.
Never mind the puddle of blood you were standing in,
a three-inch laceration on your ankle,
which you refused to be treated,
though you had a sister as a nurse,
and a hospital in your backyard.
Instead, you superglued it shut yourself.
. . .superglued. . .
The scar, a silent evidence of your blessing’s meaning—
that a single, even vulnerable life
is worth saving,
and for that, scars are worth having.
your blessing is slowly teaching me something long forgotten:
there is no such thing as being worthy.
There is only being.
Because, to talk about worthiness means placing value on others,
and value is not ours to place,
only to foster.
In this blessing,
like the Judgement of Solomon,
it wouldn’t have mattered if our neighbor was your enemy;
you would have still saved her child,
because he too was your child.
You’d have taken her scar;
not because he was a child,
but because within the paradox of not placing value
it was people whom you counted—that counted.
Simply put, Zion could only be built again on the altar of sacrifice.
You understood this.
But, within my slow crystallizations of your understanding, I am forced to wonder
if it was actually Eve who built the altar where Adam prayed.